Embracing perspectives

My dear friends, we love you so very much,

You are all looking at one another through the windows of your own perspectives. You are all simply trying to figure out who you are in the mirrors of life. "What part of the Divine puzzle am I," you ask. You learn the answer, in part, by observing others and learning what resonates and what does not.

You have the power to live in a very expansive and beautiful reality, or in a very limited, contracted, and narrow reality. You can enjoy learning about other people's perspectives or you can waste your precious life force making them wrong and judging them.

We are not saying you must dance with every human being or agree with every perspective. Far from it.

We are simply suggesting you become the observers of life, rather than its judges. When you observe life, you see as a child sees, and as God sees. You witness what is going on around you with wonder. You don't say, "This shouldn't be! That is wrong! How could they think that way!" You say instead, "That's fascinating. I like this and I don't like that. I agree with this and not with that." You own your own perspective, without having to make anyone else's wrong.

When you are open to other perspectives, you become very much like a child at a zoo. You watch all the different creatures and their different behaviors with a sense of wonder and fascination. You become curious. Why do people act the way they do. Why do they think the way they do? What do I like? Rather than judging you observe. You learn about the world around you. You learn about those different from you. You learn about yourself too as you start to acknowledge your own preferences. You like some. You don't like others. You don't have to feel guilty or even justify your feelings. You just move along and spend more time with those you like.

In this fashion, you can also observe human beings without any judgment. You can have your likes and dislikes without any need to feel guilty or justify your preferences. You can love the light within all people, while not liking the personalities and behaviors of some. You don't have to judge them, make them wrong, or condemn them. Would you need to condemn or judge vanilla if you preferred chocolate? Of course not. You could simply say "I love ice cream but honestly prefer chocolate" Likewise you can say, "I love the light that lives within all human beings but some drive me nuts so let me shift my focus to those I find more agreeable."

Dear ones your world is an amazing hub of diversity in the great scheme of creation. It was meant to be that way. The light that lives within you takes many different forms upon your planet earth. Love that light. Love the fact that it is expressed in so many different ways.Then allow yourself, without judgment or justification to simply move towards those with whom you resonate and away from those you don't. In this fashion, you free your soul to simply"be" and find its natural fit in the greater scheme of life.

You are chained to those you judge. You are spiritually free when you allow all souls, including yourself, the right to be.

God bless you. We love you so very much.

– The Angels

Message From Ann 

As I mentioned last week, I recently attended and spoke at the Academy for Spiritual and Consciousness Studies conference. It was like a little bit of heaven on earth! Physicists, neuroscientists, mystics, dream interpreters, filmmakers, and Near Death Experiencers all shared their perspectives on life, healing, and consciousness.

Some approached the subject with detailed scientific studies, others with healing demonstrations and still others with heart-touching stories of their time in heaven. Everyone was so respectful, kind, and loving to one another, even when there were differences of opinions. Speakers and attendees mingled freely and attended each others' workshops. It was another "home" away from "home."

I found myself thinking, "If only we could all learn and share from one another so respectfully, this world would be amazing." Professional grown men – scientists, doctors, and former lawyers – stood up front, getting teary eyed as they talked about their love for humanity, their NDEs, and their emerging understandings of consciousness. Instead of feeling self-conscious, they bared their hearts. Instead of the audience judging, they were touched. It was so profoundly beautiful. We did dream interpretation exercises, talked about simultaneous parallel realities, no space/no time, kundalini, healing, everything is one, surrender, and so much more.

Can you imagine a world where we are free to be who we are without fear of exposing our hearts and our own beliefs? A world where we can listen to one another, accept one another and simply choose to take in what feels right and what does not? A world where diversity of opinions are celebrated and we find the common ground? It would be heaven.

Here are a few pointers to help you embrace other's perspectives whether they agree or not.

1. Instead of listening to someone and automatically judging them right or wrong, good or bad, seek to understand.

It is the brain's job as a finely tuned computer to compare and contrast every bit of information we take in, with everything we've ever learned. In a way we're wired to sort things out according to what we know. 

Rather than judging we can simply say to ourselves. "Hm, that's different from what I think I know. Let me listen to see if I can learn anything. That's not how I think. I wonder why they think that way." Or if you absolutely can't stand the perspective, then simply say to yourself, "Not for me."

Many of you have heard this story. I once wrote a woman who ran a hate site aimed at a celebrity I liked. I asked her why and told her I was just curious. Instead of being mad at her and judging her horrible, it felt better to inquire. She said she started it as a joke and now felt trapped by all its members. I felt compassion for her inability to stand up for what she now believed in. Clearly she, like all of us, was just growing. 

2. Rather than needing to agree, acknowledge the other's perspective

You can simply say, "I see why you feel that way" or "I understand now." You don't have to agree or disagree with anyone. You just have to own your own thoughts and feelings, and allow others to have theirs. In doing so you can acknowledge another person's perspective, without having to change your own. 

For example, years ago a dear one in my life, felt I should engage in Bible study. I love the Bible. I love all spiritual books. However, because I talk to angels, and have been in heaven, I didn't feel the need for further intellectual study. He argued and tried to get me to agree. At first, I tried to justify and explain myself but then realized that it was no more my place to change him than it was his to change me. Ultimately we chose to acknowledge that each had found a path to God that worked in our own lives. We are now able to respect each others' service to the world in spite of differing beliefs.

If a person can't allow you to be, then there's no need to argue. Remain silent, or as the Bible says, "Don't cast your pearls before swine." There is no need to share your heart with those who can't see its value.

3. Rather than getting upset about others' perspectives, see them as the classroom in which they are growing.

You know what works in your life. Likewise, others know what works in theirs, or, if their lives are not working, they are actually choosing beliefs and habits that give them what they need to grow. 

I'll never forget a few decades ago. Someone I loved was sick. "I was nearly beside myself. "I can help you! I can do Reiki on you!" I begged them to let me "heal" them. Their answer taught me volumes, "I'm sick because I need rest. Please let me sleep." Pushing our own "helpful" ideas on another is never loving and rarely welcome. We can offer kindly once or twice, then let it go. Every soul knows what they need to grow. 

Even those who addict, engage in horrible habits and even exit the planet in unkind ways, grow from those experiences. I was talking to someone today who is very spiritual and kind soul. He remembers a past life as a soldier in a very vicious army. He has learned from the perspectives of his past life and is now a beautiful peace-loving soul. Eventually, love wins. 

I know this is a touchy topic. It IS a human challenge not to get saddened or angered when we hear others' perspectives that we vehemently disagree with. 

Yet we can only achieve spiritual freedom when we understand that everyone is exactly where they need to be, believing what they need to believe, working whether they know it or not, to grow back to love... including us.

May freedom live in your heart this week –  the freedom to be who you are, believe as you believe, and allow others to do the same.

Love you all!

Ann

Comments

Rayofhelios 5th July 2017 1:28 pm

Blessed are the peace makers!

This was such a soothing balm if spiritual soul reasoning (do souls even need to reason? I might have engaged a misnomer, but perhaps the intention is understood).

Thank you for a very timely and compassionate reminder to all who seek peace in a challenging Earth School!

I'm reminded that Summer classes are hardest because it's a whole semester of learning in 6 weeks (vs. 4 months). All the makings for crankiness are present when we're all learning so much these days.

God bless the teachers, and God bless the seekers, for they are one and the same

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Rayofhelios 5th July 2017 1:29 pm

Blessed are the peace makers!

This was such a soothing balm if spiritual soul reasoning (do souls even need to reason? I might have engaged a misnomer, but perhaps the intention is understood).

Thank you for a very timely and compassionate reminder to all who seek peace in a challenging Earth School!

I'm reminded that Summer classes are hardest because it's a whole semester of learning in 6 weeks (vs. 4 months). All the makings for crankiness are present when we're all learning so much these days.

God bless the teachers, and God bless the seekers, for they are one and the same

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Heartfelt courage 6th July 2017 5:16 am

This was what I needed today, thank you so
much! If all of us did this, the great divide would shrink into LOVE and peace for all! It certainly is an answer to love over judgement and fear!

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Ann Albers is a popular spiritual instructor, angel communicator, lecturer, and author. She is a traditional Reiki master and a modern mystic who delights in distilling ancient wisdom into practical, down-to-earth tools for modern living. Ann's passion and purpose is teaching others to tap into the power and beauty of their souls, as well as helping people connect with the love and wisdom of their angels.

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