Relationships Now

It is easy in all of this transforming energy to be confused about your relationships.  We will specifically be talking about three different areas of relationships:  Your relationships with others, your relationship with your loved one and your relationship with yourself.

Being a *Lightworker* who is holding higher 4th dimensional energy and integrating the *light* of the 5th dimension,  you are no longer being told by karma or your original soul plan who you are to be friends with or what type of people will be in your life.  This is a good thing to have happened; except some of you are without friends or would like more friends.  You needed to cut the ties with those that you had karmic connections with; unless they too were ascending and you were able to form a new bond with them.  This was necessary for your Soul to make the transition into the higher energy.  At this point, you can have friends; you just need to call them forth...literally.  Here is an example of how to do this:  "I thank you Lord that I have friends walk into my life now that resonate close with my heart.  Show me clear signs of anything I need to do to bring these friends into my experience. Thank you.  Amen" 

If you feel that people in your life are taking your energy or don't resonate with who you are today, it is important for you to honor what your needs are.  Most of you walk at the 5th dimensional level at some point every day.  Because of that no one can steal, take or shift your energy.  The only way you can feel differently around anyone is if you believe they can do this to you, if you allow them or if you drop your energy to the lower 4th dimension.  Because we remember that this happened for most of our lives in the 3rd dimensional energy, some of us still believe it can happen now.  I am being told to tell you that it can't.  To stop letting people affect you all you need to do is make a logical shift in your thoughts.  You are now in a position to affect the world, not vice versa.  That is the power of the 5th dimension.
 
If you grew up in an experience where the family relationships were dysfunctional, they still can be.  If family gatherings are still having the same negative energy, you need to understand that your family members may not have ascended with you.  If you are still experiencing emotions or feeling shifted when you are in that situation, there is still a lower energy tie between you which can be cut through forgiveness.   You can do a forgiveness exercise for each individual in your family that you are experiencing this with to help clear your end of this experience.  (I have placed a forgiveness video on my website to help you which explains how to do this quickly and easily.)

The family that we were born into was very specifically selected by us to teach us to love ourselves.  So with that, most of us picked families where love was not given or meted out through control.  This was not incorrect, it was perfect for us for what we wanted to learn as 3rd dimensional beings ruled by our egos.  Now that we have raised our energy to the more loving 4th dimension, we no longer need to learn that way.  But our family members more than likely did not shift as we did and accept the spiritual energy.  Some of us still have family members in the 3rd dimension and lower 4th dimension.  How do you deal with them as you ascend and they choose not to?  You do it through love and compassion.  You forgive them for the things of the past which will help you view each situation that comes up as fresh and new without all that emotional weight attached.  Then you can choose how to feel and not automatically be told by your body or brain how to feel. 
  
On this new, higher path without karma that you have agreed to walk on, you always need to let the Universe know what you need and desire.  Things just don't automatically show up in your life anymore.  If you want friends and have asked for them and friends are not showing up, then you are in a small group of Souls who are working on other spiritual things where you need to alone for a period of time.  You may be learning something that you will be sharing later or you may be integrating more *light* or many other things.  There are many reasons for this and hard for us to list them all.  Ask your Angels what the reason is for not receiving an answer to your request.  If you know you are not working on anything at this time, then make sure you did actually make the request or simply make your request again.  We are to have friendships now.  It is important, especially for those people that do not have a major love in their life.  It is necessary to balance your energy between giving and receiving.  You won't be able to give out love to others in this higher energy for very long without having an equal amount or more of love going back into your life.  In the future when we have fully anchored the 5th dimensional energy, we will be capable of learning how to be alone and still share with others however, not many will do that in this lifetime.  This is because most of our Souls are here to learn about different aspects of love and the easiest way to learn that is through relationships with others.

We made an interesting shift in Universal energy as of January 1, 2009.  Each soul was asked starting in June 2008 if it wanted to ascend.  (Not necessarily ascend to the 5th dimension.  We were asked if we still wanted to work on connecting to our Soul or did we want to be more grounded and work on only Earthplane issues.)  Changes in relationships started showing up at that time.  For some of us, it happened in our love relationship.  Things occurred after this question was asked that would not have happened otherwise.  These people made decisions which caused them to pull away from us.  I am here to tell you that if you went through that, it was necessary for that loved one to be away from your *light*.  They could not make that Soul decision while being overwhelmed with the *light* that you are constantly emitting.  If you are with that loved one again or both of you are working on getting back together, that Soul answered the Universal question with a "Yes, I want to ascend."   For those of you that experienced this you may be feeling like you are on shaky ground.  This is mostly because it came out of the blue and shocked you.  See, you never would have left that person.  You would have continued to forgive anything and everything because you try to keep the bigger picture in mind.  So Spirit in some relationships had to do something drastic to get you two apart so that your loved one's Soul could have an opportunity to answer this question in only their own *light*.  Once the decision was made, they came back.  We know that it is hard to forget what occurred during that time, however with forgiveness and with this knowledge of why the interference in your relationship really happened, you will be able to put it behind you.  Keep your face to the *light* and know that you are capable of having a new and brighter love with this person because they did choose to ascend.

If you have not reconciled with that person, your loved one's answer was "No."  The reason that you are not back together is that a door closed on January 1st.  You are on the higher, ascension side of the door and they are on the stagnant, lower energy side of the door.  If this happened to you, please understand that this was not that person's fault and it was not your fault.  This was a Soul decision and not about just this lifetime.  It was about all the lifetimes the Soul has lived and where it wants to go next and how quickly it wants to go there.  Forgive them.  Forgive yourself.  And be excited for what is ahead for you.  I have talked with many people in their Soul Sessions recently and healed them of this energy.  I know how hard it is when you loved that person and then all of a sudden it was taken away.  If you cannot move past this situation, you will not be able to bring in another Soul who is capable of loving you in the way you truly deserve that is wanting the higher energy too.  Pray about it and see if you are ready to let go and move on. 

The relationship with yourself has also changed.  With your decision to ascend and to remember more consciously who you are as a piece of God, you are exuding more confidence and power through grace and love.  Not feeling it?  It is there.  Remember to be gentle with yourself during this process of remembrance.  You have all the puzzle pieces lying on the table but sometimes you try to fit the piece in the wrong place.  The good news is that you have all the pieces!  If you feel that you are not able to go out in the world because you get shifted, then be conscious of when this occurs and work on it.  Pray about it.  Ask your Soul why this is happening and then change the response you have to the world.  This walk you have chosen is about being conscious of who you are.  In the 3rd dimension we were walking mostly unconsciously and just accepting life because we couldn't have anything different than what was originally set up for our lives.  Now you are in a position where you can create your life.  The big difference between you then and the new you is that are not doing anything through ego.  You have power but it is not egotistical power.  You give love but it is not through control.  Tell yourself that you are loved.  Tell yourself that if you were not in this world now, it would be lacking something important and necessary.  Take care of yourself in a way that you never have.  Truly allow love to flow into every part of your life...your body, mind and spirit.  This is what you have been seeking; the piece of God that was missing in your life.  You have been seeking this piece for many lifetimes outside of yourself and always felt incomplete.  Now you can have it.  You can finally love yourself.  It's time!

May you love yourself as the Angels love you,
Christ-ina

As a side note, I feel it is necessary to say something about all that has happened within the last month.  The channeled message given on April 1st, "Not If, But When" was certainly timely.  I have been receiving emails and questions during the private Soul Sessions about the current events and particularly how to handle the swine flu.  The exact answer I received from the Angels was, "Be ye not moved by the things that you see nor the things that you hear."  Do not have fear.  Fear does not resonate in the 5th dimension and therefore, you will lower your energy if you get into fear.  Be smart.  Do what you logically know to do about not accepting the flu virus into your body.  But other than that, don't dwell on it.  Don't worry about it.  It cannot "see" you if you don't lower your energy.  That is why there is no illness or disease in the 5th dimension....because you will be invisible to those lower energies.  If you have have a negative thought, affirm to yourself out loud what you want for your experience. Do you really want to experience the swine flu? If you have the thought that you could catch it because someone sneezed next to you, say out loud something like this as soon as possible "I AM strong and powerful and invisible to any virus."  Or based on the direct answer from the Angels say, "I AM not moved by the things that I see nor the things that I hear." And then don't have another thought about it.  This is very, very important: do not fall into fear.  Re-read the April message if need be.  It is going to be a guideline for other things to come as well.  Remember we are powerful as we stand in the *light*.  Where there is *light*, no dark can be.  We may not have met before however I know you and you know me.  And I want you to know that I AM standing there beside you in the *light*.  You are not alone. This too shall pass.
Much love and blessings to you my friend,

*Christ-ina*