I feel we all have the right and the WISE to choose for ourselves. I do not feel we have the right to give ADVISE..like Dan or Alexandra..To have trust in friend who have many questions regarding life or death, like many of us..to have trust they have the ability to FIND THEiR OWN ANSWER..To create the frame for this...NOT TO ADVICE! ADVICE YOUR LIFE...This is your right! in honor for all and in Life, Carla