In the heavens, we understand that all perspectives have a "right to be." This is very hard for human hearts to grasp. How can we say perspectives of hatred, division, and bigotry "have a right to be?"
There are years of change, pain, grief, loss, when you just don't feel like celebrating. It is part of the human condition. Give yourself permission to abandon tradition and do whatever you feel is most kind to yourself.
Bring the light of the season forth within you. Allow it to shine from your bright and beautiful hearts. Be the love that you truly are, and allow your problems and challenges to be lovingly dissolved by the power that creates universes.