Messages about control issues

Jamye Price

Jamye Price > Weekly LightBlast: Foregoing Control

Blessed Being, you are a powerful flow of Life Force on Earth. It is within your realm of experience to shape your life into a form of creative enjoyment from your perspective. You may not enjoy every moment, but every experience is worthwhile for your expansion.

Ann Albers

Ann Albers > No Need to Control a Thing

As you move through a time on your planet earth when everything is in motion, it is very important to be gentle with yourselves and with others. Everything is arising from the depths within you. Your hopes, your dreams, you frustrations, areas of your life that require movement... truly dear ones there is no more hiding from yourselves any longer.

Cheryl Richardson

It all started with the dishwasher.  After a good night's sleep, I walked into the kitchen one morning to make a cup of tea and found my husband loading dirty dishes into the top rack.  I stood quietly by, taking special note of how he "tossed" them in without much concern for how they were placed.  Once he was done and safely in his office, I, knowing full well that the dishwasher needed to be loaded correctly, walked over, opened the front of the machine, and proceeded to rearrange what he had done.  Just then, Michael walked back into the room. 

Dr. Judith Orloff

It’s important to identify if you are dealing with a “controller.” These people obsessively try to dictate how you’re supposed to be and feel. They have an opinion about everything; disagree at your peril. They’ll control you by invalidating your emotions if those don’t fit into their rulebook. Controllers often start sentences with, “You know what you need?”…then proceed to tell you. They’ll sling shots like, “That guy is out of your league” or “I’ll have dinner with you if you promise to be happy.”