Over the past year of my life, I lost my aunt and mom. My immediate family. I then met my biological father. I experienced both sadness and joy in such a short period. After a period of loss and gain, and being on a rollercoaster of emotion, the definition of family was reshaping.
As you develop in human form, you go through stages in your life of interacting with self, others and establishing your identity. Ideally, this identity forms an individual that is strong yet flexible.
Celebrate because you are here on the earth, among friends, among family! In truth, everyone is your family. You have millions of brothers, sisters, children, mothers, fathers, aunts, and uncles, cousins, just waiting to be discovered.
The energy of July has us all pulled apart like a southern pork sandwich/ displaced and shredded. Emotions run high as families gather and all the old dialogue emerges long enough to push buttons for another 3 months.
You are born into a family. Like most everyone, you spend your life with the people that are your family... Whether they are your birth parents, or adoptive parents (caregivers) and siblings, you have a family that you call your own.
September's new Moon falls on September 5 in the United States and in Australia. It is one that speaks to issues of family, relationships and family. In the larger scheme of things, it brings up the idea that we are all family, that we all belong to the bigger picture of humanity.
If you are reading this, it might be because the title grabbed your attention and you most likely identify as a Light worker, Adult Indigo, star seed or any combination therein. If that is indeed the case, it is highly likely that your early childhood experiences and/or your Family of Origin have been a source of pain, frustration or disappointment for you.
With the disappearance of the need to forgive comes the disappearance of the need to remain separate from anyone. Ultimately, all we have to do is remember Who We Really Are. When that occurs, forgiveness is rendered obsolete, and separation become impossible to experience except in our own imagination.
Any mother intuitively knows that her children need love. Now, a wealth of scientific evidence is shining light on why this is so. The Budapest Early Intervention Project (BEIP), a project that examined the health and development of children in Romanian orphanages, found startling evidence that when infants and children are starved of love and affection, their bodies do not grow as they should.
The US National Longitudinal Mortality Study (NLMS) involving 281,460 men and women over 45 years of age it found that marriage was associated with a much lower risk of mortality than being single. Similarly, the British Regional Heart Study of 1995, that involved 7,735 men aged 40-59, found that being single was associated with a higher risk of mortality. However, it is not marriage itself that offers the health benefits. It is the quality of relationship within the marriage that counts. A happy marriage translates to a happy heart.
From Steve: One point I have noticed is that people have many different reactions
to the word family. I was blessed to have an incredible supportive
biological family but many have quite a different history. In this
channel the group takes a look at family and what they say is ahead as
“we humans” evolve. They said we will form Families of Light. They also
said this may be one areas experiencing stretches during this
time. Family issues may come up. I can hear you holding your breath. .
. Relax, this too shall pass.