Messages about shame

It has taken me a long time but I’m learning to put my needs first. I am a single mother, with one daughter and I currently live with my mother, who is having many mental and health problems and is on lots of medications. My mother wants me to stay here with her, my daughter is the center of her world and her only motivation for living and although I want to leave, I am afraid that my mother won’t forgive me if I do, or she will ‘check out’. 

Celestina is related to the Throat chakra and lung area. She appears to me in a beautiful Blue Ray which is also the color of the chakra. The gift she brings is healing and freedom from guilt and shame.

I am ending a long-term relationship and am trying to do it in the best way possible. Even though I am trying to be nice, my partner calls me unreasonable, says that it is all my fault and that I am being mean. I would like to still be friends when it’s over but he has become so demanding that I have had to hire an attorney  and it is all getting out of control How can I end this in a nice way, without being mean?

 I’m judgmental and jealous of people I see on the internet. Oprah endorses them, their books get published, they have lots of money and everything is going well for them. They have many fans, they all claim to be spiritual and yet I don’t see them as spiritual at all. I have chosen this spiritual path (or it has chosen me), I work hard too and yet I’m struggling.

We come to a few weeks of release to prepare for great expansion.  The contraction, the going within, the choice that gives direction and momentum to life formed anew.  It is the bold choice.  Look around you at the human angels that reflect your Divinity to you.  Do you notice that you move faster?  Do you notice that you move easier?  Do you notice that you love

In several of the classes I've taught recently, including the Guilt and Shame Healing & Transformation class, I shared my shame story to highlight how one incident can create a lifetime of struggle with shame and it can come from well meaning people who never intended for their actions to create lasting shame or thought that they would. Our guilt and shame legacy has a profound impact on us, whether it happened in childhood or later in life.

How often have we done something that we have later felt guilty about? A client called because the man she was dating had said something that she felt indicated he didn't trust her. When I reminded her that she had done something that she was out of integrity with, she realized that her reaction was based on her guilt and fear that he would find out about what she had done.

Emotions like guilt and shame do not exist in a vacuum. They are part of a long process of actions involving people and situations that have created these emotions. All we remember is the end of this process, how terrible we feel and these have been repeated often enough to prevent us from moving forward as soon as we sense a hint of them.

The more the energy shifts open our hearts to the divinity of who we are, the more we become aware of the darker, denser energies we carry. And we see the connections those energies have to our limitations, unhappiness and frustration. Some of these are easy to let go of because we can detach from the experiences that come with them. Learning to not take others’ behavior personally makes it easier to release betrayal and disappointment.

Most religions and spiritual teachings are based on polarity, good and bad. The basic Christian premise is that if you are good, based on their specifications, then you get to go to Heaven.

It's always a pleasure to speak to you, regardless of the circumstance that any of you find yourself in: the emotional circumstance, the physical circumstance, etc.  It's much the same for us regardless of these circumstances, although we do notice changes within you with love. The interest this evening is in having us speak to you about the issue of shame. 

I've been writing a series called Playing with Language where I look at the origins and energies of specific words.

Greetings Dear Ones for I AM KRYON of Magnetic Service. It is wonderful to be with you all this night here in Marina da Gama for there is much love in the air and there is much change in the air. This world is on its way to becoming a very, very different place.

"For most of my life, I have had issues with finances and money, or more specifically, issues with financial institutions. This has filled my life with stress, fear, and an acute sense of powerlessness. At this point, I no longer want to play the game. I want to release it, and be free… Please, help me release this game – this illusion of form and