Back in the 1990s it was popular to ask someone what their astrological sign was, because knowing someone's star sign would determine whether a match could be made. And there is some truth to this because some signs do not get along as well as others (although there is more than sun signs to consider).
Usually our physical friends are not at one with the idea of contrast, because most still believe some version of "the world is not as it should be, and we have, or you have, or all have come forth in order to make the world a better place...to right the wrongs and get rid of the bad stuff." But from your broader Nonphysical Perspective, you do not see this time/space reality as broken o
Are you understanding that you are vibrational beings? Are you understanding that everything is vibrational and that your experience, no matter who you are, whether you are physical or Non-physical, whether you are human or insect, your perspective, or that which you perceive, is only about your translation of vibration?
When you observe something that is pleasing, by your standards, you have a good feeling response. Life feels better when you are not looking at something that makes you feel bad.
Are you knowing that you are the creator of your experience? Is that a good thing? Have you noticed that there is a continual new desire within you? Are you beginning to understand that the desire that is focused within you is the most natural thing in all of the Universe?