Finding your way through Life is an individual process within a collective of support. It does not always feel like support, and your mind can process much evidence to the contrary. Your heart, dear one, can find much Love within all experience.
As you grow into an adult, you begin to observe your past, your present and your ideals against those that you have been surrounded with for your entire life. From your family, friends and cultures, you evaluate what still feels true to you and what you want to discard.
Blessed Being, you are at a time of great creative power as humanity begins the collective realization of their true beingness. You are learning that you are unique and sovereign, and to deny or suppress that results in less flow.
Change is a symptom of choice. It is a consequence of empowerment. Change is the effect of your cause. You are changed by Life, for Time does not stop. Life is changed by you, for you are part of Life.
The Mind is a beautiful biomechanism supporting your Earth journey. It can be friend or foe. While that changes based on your perspective, it is really a natural functionality that is assisting your growth, though you choose the Pace.