Clients often call for readings when they are facing
difficult life situations, particularly when those situations
involve people who are creating problems for them. This can be
problems with someone at work, in a relationship or within a
family. When faced with the sometimes truly horrible behavior
of others, the question is 'what about them, when do they pay
for what they do and why do they get away with it?' When we
are walking a spiritual path and doing our best to be in
integrity with our path, why do we have to suffer and someone
else apparently gets to behave badly without intervention from
the Universe?
We may be spiritual beings but we are playing on a human field, with human emotions, desires, thought processes and experiences, some of which can be quite difficult. It is a human emotion to want retribution, to want someone who is creating so much pain for us to be held accountable for their actions. How do we know this isn't already happening? What if their objective was to make us more afraid than they already are? What if they want us to be more afraid of them than they are of us so they can feel that they have control and the upper hand?
Those who create the most problems for us have been doing so for lifetimes-while we are in the midst of a difficult experience with them now, it is part of a much larger cycle that we have been repeating for years. In this lifetime it can appear that it is our turn to suffer but we may have been through this with them from the other side, where we are the ones have been the aggressor or the abuser. What is our lesson in this and what role do they play for us? Can we get past the drama and find where our own fears are being exposed? Can we find the other person's pain and realize that this is where they are acting from?
The most difficult people are also the ones who have the most fear. They will have their day of atonement and may already be in it. That is between them and the Source. Maintaining our equilibrium, staying on our path, not giving up and being strong in the face of what can seem to be relentless drama and chaos is our lesson. Our teachers take us to our central fear, the overriding issue of our lifetime, the one thing that we fear above all else which for may be anything from physical death to loss of power and control. And this is also what we do for them. Rather than asking 'what about them' consider what is in this for you, what your lesson entails and let Creator handle the rest.
We may be spiritual beings but we are playing on a human field, with human emotions, desires, thought processes and experiences, some of which can be quite difficult. It is a human emotion to want retribution, to want someone who is creating so much pain for us to be held accountable for their actions. How do we know this isn't already happening? What if their objective was to make us more afraid than they already are? What if they want us to be more afraid of them than they are of us so they can feel that they have control and the upper hand?
Those who create the most problems for us have been doing so for lifetimes-while we are in the midst of a difficult experience with them now, it is part of a much larger cycle that we have been repeating for years. In this lifetime it can appear that it is our turn to suffer but we may have been through this with them from the other side, where we are the ones have been the aggressor or the abuser. What is our lesson in this and what role do they play for us? Can we get past the drama and find where our own fears are being exposed? Can we find the other person's pain and realize that this is where they are acting from?
The most difficult people are also the ones who have the most fear. They will have their day of atonement and may already be in it. That is between them and the Source. Maintaining our equilibrium, staying on our path, not giving up and being strong in the face of what can seem to be relentless drama and chaos is our lesson. Our teachers take us to our central fear, the overriding issue of our lifetime, the one thing that we fear above all else which for may be anything from physical death to loss of power and control. And this is also what we do for them. Rather than asking 'what about them' consider what is in this for you, what your lesson entails and let Creator handle the rest.
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