Why Do They Hate Me?

Sunday, 19 July, 2009 (posted 23 July, 2009)

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From your emails and readings, I know that many of you are confused with what is happening with relationships at this time, not the romantic ones but friends, family and other associations where suddenly you go from being friends to being their worst enemy. Sometimes you can make an innocent comment and are bombarded with words and feelings that shock you. These are situations that end long time friendships and while you may feel like the victim you are somewhat responsible for this because you are helping others heal and many are going through healing crises that they blame you for.

Every shift in your vibration has an effect on everyone and everything around you. Those who are ready to shift will join you, those who are not will reject you, in an unpleasant way. You have created a void in their energetic space, a gap that where they can no longer connect to you in the same way. On an energetic level they lost an important resource that helped them manage their fear. Without your energy, they have to deal with their fear in another way. Since they have been using your energy and not their own, as soon as your energy is removed, the fear rushes in because there is nothing to buffer it.

Many of us act as energetic buffers for our friends and partners. We do this unconsciously, sharing our vibrations with them to help them with their healing journey. And we can do this as long as our vibrations are fairly close to theirs. But as soon as we shift enough that we are out of their range, the connection can no longer exist and they have to use their inner resources to fill that void. But since they have been using our energy, they do not know how to use these resources and feel the fear they have successfully avoided. They have the resources to deal with the fear, they just do not know how to use them. So they see you as the problem and are angry with you when the real problems is with them.

Their reaction can make you feel terrible if you take it personally but you should know that there is nothing you can do in this situation except to release them with unconditional love, send them light and blessings and go your own way. We are now able to experience the full volume of our energy for the first time in many lifetimes. But to do so we have to take back the energy we have been sharing with others, creating a predicament for them. And they may hate you for it but each person is responsible for their healing and has to find their energetic center. Enjoy your energy, power and use it to create the reality of their dreams. Remember that everyone has this ability and now they have an opportunity learn how to do it for themselves.

Copyright ©2010 by Jennifer Hoffman and Enlightening Life OmniMedia, Inc. This material is protected by US and international copyright now and may be distributed freely in its entirety as long as the author’s name and website, www.urielheals.com are included.

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Re: Why Do They Hate Me?

by k 23rd July 2009 3:48 pm

Enigmaress, from one hermit to another, I know how you feel. I went out into public places today and actually had the smiles I sent out reflect back to me. For me it is best to just consider the hate and anger aimed at me as part of a dream and not take it personally. This is a hard thing to do some of the times and I still have to work through the anger and self pity I feel. A friend of mine used to say "it is their issue, not mine", People who throw hate and anger out will have it some back to them, and if you feel well grounded in what you know to be the truth and love yourself you understand that the darkness is theirs and not yours. I know I have to work through my negative feelings in order to progress toward enlightenment, my only goal in this life time. Plus, if I do not stay the course and I will fall into hopeless despair and depression, God's rod that keeps on the path.

Re: Why Do They Hate Me?

by Amy Pierce 23rd July 2009 6:38 pm

Thank you so much for writing about this subject. I needed to hear this as well. Wasn't quite sure what was going on. This helps so much. I hope you keep us updated with these kinds of messages. They are greatly appreciated.
I love Spirit Library and follow it daily.
Thank you.
Angel Blessings, Amy

Re: Why Do They Hate Me?

by Sonic Princess 23rd July 2009 9:43 pm

When you shine the light, the 'gremlins' come out. They become more visible.

Much easier for people to blame everyone else rather that face up to their own fears/parts or aspects they may even 'hate' about ones self. This type of lashing out is only because they are scared, and its so easy to lose control of emotions when one is scared...not easy facing or admitting ones own gremlins!

Light is a trigger.Its so much more powerful than I ever realised...

Re: Why Do They Hate Me?

by sansu 24th July 2009 12:09 am

Wow, that really hit home. I shined a light on some abuse and got a huge back lash. I have been trying to repair the hate instead of walk away from it. Walking away just did not feel correct to me with all the talk of us being more evolved, becoming one, love, love ,love talk everywhere. Yet trying to communicate is not working either, so I was confused about how to repair it and very angry with the whole situation I caused. I really resonated with me about shifting and causing a void for others because I changed and was not going to stay quiet about the abuse I was witnessing. And I also see how I was also using someone's energy to not face my fears. Good artical, I really needed to hear this tonight, I took a walk and cried again tonight, I have been feeling so heart broken over this for a few months now, not knowing how to repair it. Now I understand better about what is taking place and know I need to use my own energy better also. Thank you so much!

Re: Why Do They Hate Me?

by sansu 24th July 2009 12:12 am

Yes, I am realizing how powerful the light is also.....wow!

Re: Why Do They Hate Me?

by susannah 24th July 2009 4:34 am

This is something I have been giving some thought to recently. How our energies affect our emotions and how we as humans need to understand more about energies. Is it just that this person or their energy is no longer required on our path and that we will learn to be aware of and understand this feeling when it occurs? Instead of aggression, hatred and other negative emotions we will learn to have an understanding and acceptance of this. To recognize that this feeling we are having simply means that our energies are separating and our paths are taking us in different directions so that we will eventually be able to wish each other well for our new journey ahead. This must be a way forward for peace on earth.

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Re: Why Do They Hate Me?

by sansu 24th July 2009 11:37 am

I am realizing even though on the earth plane there is discordant energy on the etheric realms there is love and peace. This is a poem I wrote the other night with the person who dis-like me on earth, he came to my awarness as I was writing poems and wrote this one to me.

Stand back my dear angel, so I can get this done. Your heart is too precious to soil with this dirt. So stay back my dear angel, so I won’t take your heart from its peaceful mirth.

I am here with you now in the ethers of time and space, and we are making rhyme. Stand back my sweet angel; I don’t want you to hurt, but shine.

My earthly existence is to dark for your heart. I can’t stand to see those beautiful blue eyes in the slime and dirt, so stand back my dear angel, I must do my work.

Now kiss my sweet lips my darling and write it down in rhyme, and look into my eyes lovingly as we melt into one time.

No walls will divide us the ethers are our homes, so stand back my sweet angel, I’ve got work to be done and I don’t want to look like a hypocritical jerk. 7-21-2009

Re: Why Do They Hate Me?

by Jules299 29th July 2009 9:34 pm

Thanks for this - like most people I identify with this issue, and generally there seem to be such powerful energies around affecting people. However, I do have a minor quibble with this article. I apologise if I'm misinterpreting things, but, it's as follows. I feel slightly uncomfortable with the fact that the article is based on 'them' and 'us'. About what happens to 'them', when 'we' move ahead and so on. Surely it's all about us, not them and us? I know it's meant in a positive and constructive way and so on, but personally, without spelling it out to the nth degree, I don't mucn like the implications of 'them' and 'us' or similar. It seems as if assumptions are being made about one necessarily being ( tho' it could well be so) more spiritually advanced than the other , and that one is the Spirit Library reader. That's just what struck me, perhaps I'm splitting hairs ?! I can learn from the essence of the message, though, thank you.

Re: Why Do They Hate Me?

by Jules299 29th July 2009 9:46 pm

This is a P.S. to my other comment. I want to add that, like for others, this is charged with a huge amount of emotion and general stuff for me too, and am going through a huge amount of sensitivity to many things happening. Hence from my own point of view, I don't always know how to handle ways I seem to be treated by others. Consequently, and relevant to my other comment, in my case I'm not always sure what lies at the root of it, I don't assume with me that it's necessarily I'm of a higher vibration - tho in some cases it may be that. I hope that all makes sense , and sense of my earlier comment. I think this is a really important issue, thank you so much.

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Re: Why Do They Hate Me?

by Tzaddi 23rd August 2009 10:26 am

I, too, am uncomfortable with the duality emphasized in Spirit Library articles: "US (readers of these pieces)" vs. THEM (those guys who aren't reading this stuff). However, my understanding of "enlightenment" is that it ends duality for the seeker--that is, when we begin to see GOD in all things, there is no duality, no US/THEM. We're all ONE. AND, I am still a fan of the concept of co-creation--that whatever I am experiencing is a result of my inner state of being. As in, having ickies "out there?" How does that reflect my inner pictures? Seems to me that folks having ickies could take a moment to see what's being reflected, what needs to be healed. Like, all that stuff out there is really inside you! It's so much easier, however, to simply agree that "we're enlightened and they aren't." Accepting responsibility for one's personal experience is much harder. However, it's also the way to full empowerment.

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Re: Why Do They Hate Me?

by Jules299 1st September 2009 8:47 pm

Thanks, Tzaddi - it's reassuring to know that someone else had a somewhat similar reaction to myself re this article. I felt slightly presumptuous challenging it , given the apparent source! Nevertheless, presumably any good source of wisdom can withstand any sincere criticism. I guess I can see the article's way of looking at it, but it seemed a bit blatant to me , all the 'them and us'.How often have I read , basically, the point you're making? (a lot).

Nevertheless i do have a huge way to go with really learning the point you're making, about it all being inside us, if we see negatives 'out there'.It's a tough one, in one's life , to totally deal with, in truth ( for me). But, hey, maybe I'm just a tad more enlightened than I was...?! Hope so - and what an amazing time to be experiencing. I'll stop now.

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Re: Why Do They Hate Me?

by Enigmaress 24th April 2010 7:02 am

Beautiful message thank you so much.

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Re: Why Do They Hate Me?

by Enigmaress 24th April 2010 7:03 am

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