Are You a Secret Dictator?

Dear Ones,

Even though you envision a world of joy and peace, daily you are reminded of the angst felt and displayed by so many. Where is the joy? Where is the peace?

So it is, you are upset enough with the public displays of rage that you shift pieces of your life and being. Of course, you wish the same for all those in your world. But that is not how this shift is happening. For indeed, if a god-like figure appeared now in the sky throughout the globe, arguments would start as to who the god represents and the meaning of that god.

The world, as a whole, is not yet ready for a cohesive movement to peace and joy.

Such a statement makes you angry for you are tired of thinking that all is well when it does not seem at all well. Your neighbors and friends have different concepts of what joy means to them. Your teachers and employers press you into service in ways that do not feel right for you now even if similar actions felt right just days or months ago.

You are changing – your thoughts, philosophies, actions, and beliefs. And you want everyone to do the same. For indeed, you are right, and they are wrong. Which is little different from what has been declared for earth eons.

You are right within you. But that rightness does not expand beyond you.

Such is the difficult point for you at this moment. Who would not want to live in peace and joy? Even though the vast majority of humans do, their beliefs how to arrive at that peace and joy do not necessarily coincide with yours.

Feeling that someone is wrong, in whatever form, indicates you maintain some of the 3D belief patterns held by all for eons.

Now you are thinking we do not have the right to tell you how to feel or act. That you are right and so many others are wrong. That their direction is about fear and yours is joy and freedom.

No one is trying to create a terrible life for themselves. All are doing the best they can with the resources they have. So it is that even though you are approaching this all-encompassing transition with love in your heart, your speech, feelings and actions are dictatorial.

If that last statement made you angry or the least bit uncomfortable, you are indeed claiming the freedom of others to be your holy right.

Now you are clamoring that if all progress at their rate, this transition will not happen in your lifetime. Meaning all you have achieved to date is for naught – that you will not live to see this transition through.

But then, taking away the freedom of others to explore their interests, their needs is no different from what has happened for 3D earth eons. It is duality hidden with the ‘rightness’ of your thoughts – more importantly, your need to sense that all are part of this transition as quickly as possible.

You want a fast-food result for a long-term process.

We are not telling you that you will not be part of this New Earth in this lifetime. Merely that your rapid movement does not equate to the movement of others just awakening or those not wishing to awaken at this time.

Just as you cannot tell someone who to marry or how to vote, you cannot tell others how they must behave or function just because you feel you know better or are wiser.

Perhaps you are wiser. But you are at a different place than they are so they can no more see your directive than you can understand why they cannot see it or wish to experience it.

Even though this transition is happening much more rapidly than you or we anticipated, it is still draped in the freedom to be. Just because you wish to have a fast-food transition experience does not mean others wish the same.

You role, and only role, at this moment, is to love yourself enough to create your unique path. All other actions will fall into place accordingly – without pushing or stressing.

You hear the fear and anger displayed by your media and friends. And are concerned that unless you push your candidate or philosophy all will be lost in the angst or temper tantrums of others.

Do not be concerned about others. You are not a savior in any sense of the word. You are a beacon, a leader and a scout master for those who wish to follow. But it is not your role to push others into place. Nor is it your role to force others to think, believe or function as you do.

You believe that if you give someone you care about the right push, they will light up with the sudden knowingness of the rightness of this transition – or more to the point – the rightness of your approach to this transition.

You are you. They are themselves. The only bisector of those two entities, if you will, is your beacon of light. Nothing more. Or nothing less than just be you and allow the same for others. So be it. Amen.



Brenda Hoffman 31st May 2016 5:53 pm

Hi Nikos,
We're saying the same thing with different words. I'm adding my blog response to someone who was disturbed that she didn't love everyone (especially herself for not loving everyone)
Please don’t be so hard on yourself. We were trained for 3D eons to judge and think less of ourselves and others.

You know how you want to shift – your concern is you’re not shifting rapidly enough for you. You will.

I catch myself gossiping, judging and other 3D pieces that I don’t particularly expect of myself now. But I realize we’re shifting rapidly just not as rapidly as we like. It’s a process.

Before this transition, you didn’t know you needed/wanted to withhold judgment just as I once thought gossiping, etc was a part of this lifetime. Today, I heard my husband gossiping & instead of finding out what he was talking about (& relishing doing so), I needed to leave the room. Gossip just doesn’t feel that good or right for me any longer.

The same will happen for you when it’s time for it to happen. Allow yourself the freedom to flow, instead of trying to place yourself in boxes of rig

cyndy 31st May 2016 8:06 pm

For some this must be making another pass in the round of consciousness we are going through.
I just had someone trying to connect "that" way with me in an e-mail and found no energy to go there at all as they try to give me the "low down" on people . And chuckled at the words in a horoscope today.
"The difference between dishing the dirt and mudslinging is only a few drops of water."

kay 31st May 2016 10:59 pm

I read this this morning and thought I'd get back to it for a comment and then didn't. I would have said "Oh my dear Brenda, what courage it takes to speak our truth and you just keep on doing it. bless you. you speak with such love though some people are going to feel that their toes have been stepped on."

there's so much of this in our community, in ourselves, and in the world at large, this judgment of how we want the world to be, how we see the world can be. I slip into it many times a day, or maybe not so much anymore since something's truly shifted. but then I'm inclined to say oh right this nonjudgment is so much holier than the judgment I felt just yesterday. this shift is such a good thing. this energy is SOOOO much better than that energy. and there you have it all over again.

"arrogance" is the word I used when I had my little meltdown right here on your front porch, arrogance within me or within one of the other me's.

really, I don't know why I bother with words, it all gets so convoluted.

thank you sweet sister. thank you for finding the expression.

Heartfelt courage 1st June 2016 6:51 am

I always read backwards, but your words are just as classic and worthwhile to me as the next one at this present time!

Thank you dear Brenda!

Brenda Hoffman 2nd June 2016 3:48 pm

Hi Cyndy,
Your horoscope slogan, "The difference between dishing the dirt and mudslinging is only a few drops of water." made me laugh out loud. And so it is we're finding gossip boring and so yesterday!!!!! YES!!!
Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,

Brenda Hoffman 2nd June 2016 3:55 pm

Hi Kay,
Not to worry. We've learned for eons that judgment is "where's it's at." I think it's marvelous that we're now noting judgment pieces we once didn't even realize was judgment. Think how far we've come in such a short period (in the totality of time - sometimes, I want it to move faster too!). From thinking judgments were perfectly ok to judging ourselves for not being perfect - like not knowing how to walk the first time (or the 50th time) you attempt to do so as a toddler. We're getting there. Go Team!
Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,

Brenda Hoffman 2nd June 2016 3:56 pm

Thank you, Heartfelt Courage!
Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,


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An intuitive since birth, Brenda formalized her channeling skills with her internationally noted book, A Glimpse of Your Future. This prophetic classic describes your role in this transition, as well as answers questions such as why baby boomers were instrumental in introducing the New Age and what earth will be like in the year 4000.

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