Are Your Teachers Clinging to 3D?

Dear Ones,

Many of you are somewhat comfortable with moving to a different community, loss of a loved one or financial issues. You have dealt with those issues – and probably much more – in the past with the help of your family and friends support system. But what if that support system disappears? What if your entire being shifts – and it is – and there is no one with whom to discuss or share your amazing new being?

Such are the fears of many.

For even your New Age/new earth friends may be interested in different areas than you. Or they may be labeling themselves new earth when in truth they are merely regurgitating Old Age rules and regulations. Whenever you read, hear or sense that there are ‘shoulds’ involved with their brand of New Age/new earth thought, you might feel uncomfortable enough to remove them from your support list.

They are not bad or terrible, merely more stuck in 3D muck than you wish to be.

Many are now awakening to the new energies pummeling earth. Even though they feel a need to move beyond traditional thought, their first movement into new earth/New Age concepts might be with those who produced information before most energy shifts began – the accepted New Age teachers of the Old Age. Of course, there are materials that feel light and bright even though they were created before the full force of this massive transition. But many do not. You will know which are correct for you by the lightness and joy the teachings provide.

Those who continue to preach the evils of organizations, persons or activities have not yet fully released themselves from 3D.

That is not to say you ‘should’ not associate with those teachers or friends, but to remind you to maintain your course no matter what anyone tells you. If they are indicating you are wrong or should follow their regimen to be saved or ascend, they have not yet moved beyond 3D duality.

No one can create your path. They can give you pointers and ideas, perhaps even complete concepts. But all must be processed within you to determine if the information is correct for them or for you.

Those who promote duality – you are good and others are bad – are not the teachers you are looking for at this time.

Perhaps that last sentence appears as if we are forcing you onto a particular path. The opposite is true. You must create your own path. A path that is rapidly becoming less about duality and more about the joys of the new earth. We are merely stating that some of your greatest new earth teachers of the Old Age are no longer valid for they refuse to move on for a variety of reasons including financial gain or fame.

Perhaps remembering those you so admired in high school – the perky cheerleader or star athlete – who continue to relive those glory days in their thoughts and actions instead of creating a new life beyond high school will better help you understand.

We do not wish to create more duality by labeling those New Age teachers/role models stuck in 3D muck as bad, but to forewarn you that labels do not make anyone who they wish to be. United thought and action creates the new being that you are becoming. If you do not feel as if you are learning, loving or in joy when you are with a teacher/role model, it is time for you to move on.

You are extremely comfortable in duality, fear and pain. There is nothing new for you to learn in those areas. Your new learning base is joy and love. Those who help you find or create both are your new role models.

Some of you do not need role models for your messages and actions are complete within you.

The New Age is not like the Old Age in any respect.

In the Old Age, you attached yourself to someone wiser than you – a college professor, professional mentor, parent or guru – to find your path and move along it correctly. Such is no longer the case. You are now a self-contained entity who does not need anyone to help you find your path. But that does not mean it is not more joyous to travel that path with others of similar mind.

Your life has shifted from finding someone to lead the way and tell you how you should meditate or what crystals were necessary, to finding playmates on your path to joy. Playmates who may decide to take another path just for fun or others who join you at various points. Will you have a best friend? Perhaps. Maybe for years. Maybe for days. It does not matter for those you surround yourself with to discover joy and love will always be on your path for the correct amount of time.

That thought returns us to romantic relationships which we discussed briefly during this week’s Creation Energies show on If you feel a need to end or shift your current romantic relationship, it is because he or she no longer wishes to be on your path. Which is neither good nor bad – merely an indicator that many are shifting.

In turn, even though someone you love does not seem to be on the same path, you have no need to leave – a seeming dichotomy, but it is not. Many are shifting more rapidly than you realize so even though they may seem stuck in 3D or not moving as rapidly as you, you have no need to end the relationship. They are shifting internally and your inner-being is merely encouraging you to allow them to catch up to you.

As we stated on so many occasions, the only truth you need to explore is that which is within you.

Perhaps your beloved new earth teacher is making you feel uncomfortable. You avoid interactions with them for you feel less worthy as they tell you how terrible the world is or how you must do this to even begin to understand how powerful they are. Your inner-being tells you it is time to move on.

Perhaps your mate seems confused or too slow to grasp new concepts. You are impatient and frustrated. But your inner-being gives no sign to move on. So it is not and may never be.

Listen to your inner-being and you will know. Observe and act from your outer-being and you remain stuck in 3D muck. So be it. Amen.


kay 13th March 2013 10:00 am

I know this message is true for me. I've been experiencing that perspective. Thanks again, Brenda, for reaffirming in a loving and gentle way.

You do tend to rattle the bars and shake the cage! Don't know exactly what these metaphors mean in this case since the blocks and obstacles are always divinely self-imposed and divinely self-dissolved. But there's generally a jarring (not harshly so), unsettling (maybe that's closer) aspect to your words that sits just right with me.

Thanks again for putting yourself out there.

gillian 13th March 2013 10:46 am

Thank you Brenda for this affirmation which resonates so well with me. For some time I was puzzled by what I now recognize as duality; in retrospect I am grateful to certain 'teachers' for instances which presented the impetus to move forward on my own path.

COBALT 13th March 2013 12:03 pm

All so true. Guess I'll do the Hokey Pokey now, and turn myself around. :smitten:

Brenda Hoffman 13th March 2013 12:44 pm

Dear Cobalt,
I LOVE the "Hokey Pokey" "Bunny Hop" "Mexican Hat Dance" and "YMCA" I just love dancing, esp if you get to act silly doing it.

Looks like we might have to do a virtual "Hokey Pokey" one of these days!!!

Thanks for one of my belly laughs of the day. Just thinking about those silly dances makes me laugh.

Blessings, Silliness and Sparkles,

Brenda Hoffman 13th March 2013 12:47 pm

Dear Gillian,
What a wonderful confirmation - everyone is helping us move into our place including teachers, friends and family who make us aware of how we're shifting. Thank you.

Blessings and Sparkles,

Brenda Hoffman 13th March 2013 12:57 pm

Dear Kay,
I know. Sometimes after completing a channel I'm amazed at how few pieces of our world are left untouched.

A few times I've hesitated publishing something and then realized it doesn't matter if everyone or no one reads or listens to my channels. My channels are available to all and if someone don't feel comfortable reading or listening to the info, I'm probably not a good resource for them.

We're all on our own path - part of my joy path just happens to be channeling and sharing what I receive.

Blessings and Sparkles,

Marvil 13th March 2013 2:51 pm

Thank You Brenda for such easy and empowering message. I've wondered already for quite a while
where i am and is there any person to relate to? Sometimes i wondered: is it ego that pushes me away
so that i think im better and don't wan't to listen what do in these "groups".
Too much "shoulds" and "let me tell you why you here" talk was there...
Part of me tried to relate at least even a bit. I started to alienize and now many could say that
"he's in a weird coma state" :coolsmiley It's great to see that You are in the same room and
every day more and more people are coming "online". Seems that i may after all have use for language :)
Here i am and will greet with open arms all my new friends ;)
You are all masters and i'm happy that i can say this to you all!

Baloneypants 13th March 2013 3:36 pm

I certainly experienced this. In my search for spiritual friends I realized "New Age" is full of outer-dependant practices, and they are very popular. So when I hear 'you shoulds' my inner alarm starts to go off.

While they're all 'nice tools' I don't think someone like say, Jesus, spent much time worrying about a special diet or doing specialized yoga to become more spiritual, because that would be depending on a method that existed outside of himself. But maybe he was secretly doing all of it behind the scenes! And selling cute crystal necklaces to people in a little kiosk in Nazareth :)

Brenda Hoffman 13th March 2013 4:37 pm

Dear Marvil,
I'm thinking everyone now on earth is a Lightworker - just with different roles to play including helping you understand that your inner-being knew how self-contained and wonderful you are even if you didn' first.

Yes, blessings to all on earth as we make this transition faithfully playing roles we agreed to before entering earth.

But sometimes don't you wish the Lightworkers who make us a bit 'crazy' or angry or feel less than we are, would wear a sign telling us what role they're playing in our lives so we wouldn't have to 'work' so hard trying to figure it out!!!

By the way, kudos Marvil for figuring it out!
Blessings and Sparkles,

Brenda Hoffman 13th March 2013 4:41 pm

Dear Baloneypants,
Yeah I heard that he had a special workbook that only some people could understand!!!

You make me laugh every week. I just had images of Jesus behind a crystal stand and had to laugh out loud.

Blessings and Sparkles..and Lots of Laughter,

zorro 13th March 2013 5:53 pm

"Whenever you read, hear or sense that there are ‘shoulds’ involved with their brand of New Age/new earth thought, you might feel uncomfortable enough to remove them from your support list."

Who likes to be "should upon"?

Brenda Hoffman 13th March 2013 6:13 pm

Ok Zorro,
You made me laugh too! Yes who wants to be 'should' upon?

Blessings and Sparkles,

zorro 13th March 2013 6:35 pm

a message from Brenda Hoffman
Tuesday, 12 March, 2013 (posted 13 March, 2013)
1313 views, 12 comments - add a comment

How's that for synchronicity?
Just noticed it! No Kidding!!!

zorro 13th March 2013 6:36 pm

Whoops! I'm jumping the gun!
3-12-13, but only 4 1/2 hours away!

zorro 13th March 2013 6:38 pm

No, I actually had it right, the first time.
When is this retrograde Mercury over?

kay 13th March 2013 6:58 pm

If there's anyone out there as old as I am, you've heard the song "I've got a lovely bunch of coconuts." I'm just thinking that this group here is a lovely bunch of coconuts. You've made me laugh all the way through.

Yes, to the Hokey Pokey . . . virtual or otherwise.

I'd like to share a story, guys. Years ago the mother of a friend of mine passed over and she'd arranged and written out all the instructions for the final service. Everyone was gathered round the gravesite, everything was going as planned with all the verses and all, and then someone was called forward with a tape recorder to play this beautiful soul's last musical request. It was the Hokey Pokey. There was a moment of stunned silence and then utter joy and delight. I've always thought that was a most amazing gift.

Blessings to all.

karlahg 13th March 2013 7:07 pm

As always Brenda your messages come at just the right time. I find sometimes that the message is just reminding me of something that I already know, which is a weird feeling really! Life is definitely better and easier when you trust your own inner guidance. :)

Yelana 13th March 2013 7:08 pm

Gotta say I don't take to being
should upon at the best of times.
There is a brilliant, I think,
channeling from Kryon by Lee Carroll
called "The Recalibration of Shoulds."
It is one of my all time favourites.
I often go back for another read and
it makes me feel good all over.
Thanks Brenda and all.

cyndy 13th March 2013 9:16 pm

Colbolt, I loved your Hokey Pokey. I have been blessed to have had high calibre teachers. And for some time now have just been tuning in more and more to my own inner GPS.And now just going to Hokey Pokey more.

Lynn868 13th March 2013 9:44 pm

Thank you so much for this post Brenda. This message has been flowing through me for well over a year now (maybe two). You've articulated this so well. I've encountered quite a few financially successful, and very popular New Age gurus who are still stuck in the 3D "you're doing it wrong" philosophies - that are marketed as "Spiritual Laws". I've had one popular "Spiritual Teacher" tell me more than once that if I have a difficulty in life it's because my thoughts & energy weren't perfect. When in fact, I knew in my heart (& soul) that this wasn't my truth. Life isn't always black or white. She's very reluctant to give up this way of teaching, so I've moved on...

We're all playing for "Team Light" - but each person has their own unique role & life path to lead. It seems much more productive to offer love & compassion to our fellow TeamMates - no matter what the circumstance.

Big Hugs to all of you - really enjoyed reading your comments. Now let's get back to our Hokey Pokey :)

Brenda Hoffman 14th March 2013 10:09 am

Dear Zorro,
Whoa! Love it! A couple of times when I've been ready to push my blog publish button, I've noticed that the word count is 1111 - once even at 11:11 am. I love number sequences and alignments. 13/13/13 Cool or what! Plus a message for you and probably for us all. Thank you for noticing.

Blessings and Sparkles,

Brenda Hoffman 14th March 2013 10:11 am

Dear Zorro,
Not to worry. There was a reason you noted 13/13/13 and reported to all of us.
Blessings and Sparkles,

Brenda Hoffman 14th March 2013 10:14 am

Dear Zorro,
As you can see, I'm responding to messages in sequence and so glad you were right the first time. 13/13/13 is way more interesting than 13/12/13!!!!!!!!

Blessings and Sparkles,
PS And with so many planets in Pisces we're all a little fuzzy right now. Course I'm in my element as I'm a Pisces.

Brenda Hoffman 14th March 2013 10:17 am

Dear Kay,
I LOVE IT!!! I've always told everyone to play "Proud Mary" Tina Turner version for me but I think now I'll add "The Hokey Pokey" to the song list. I absolutely love that. Thank you for my belly laughs.

Blessings, Fun and Sparkles,

Brenda Hoffman 14th March 2013 10:24 am

Dear Karlahg,
We're just remembering what we already know deep within us. Whew. It's so wonderful to be removing the veils of outer-directedness.

Often when channeling I'll think, "Of course, that makes so much sense and feels so right."

Blessings and Sparkles,

Brenda Hoffman 14th March 2013 10:28 am

Dear Yelana,
I'm not at all surprised that Lee has already covered the topic - he's one of my favorites also.

But isn't amazing how many times we need to hear the same information - listen to your inner-self, move into joy and out of pain. We truly have become experts in pain and fear.

Who would have ever guessed that moving to joy would require a concentrated effort when we first started moving in that direction years ago?

Blessings and Sparkles,

Brenda Hoffman 14th March 2013 10:31 am

Dear Cyndy, Cobalt and All,
I'm thinking the Hokey Pokey could change our society more quickly than thousands of words!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Blessings and Sparkles,

Brenda Hoffman 14th March 2013 10:37 am

Dear Lynn,
Love and compassion and the Hokey Pokey pretty well sums up the new earth!

Kudos for leaving an activity/classroom that used to give you joy.

Like you, I'm thinking that many of those teachers will be invaluable for those just starting to dip their toes into the new earth waters. They will help the new pioneers bridge the New and Old ages.

Blessings and Sparkles,

cyndy 14th March 2013 11:02 am

Oh Brenda, You are a fellow Piscean. I posted on another on Monday as it was 3-11 13 and my birthday which was on the exact day of the new moon and 6 planets aligning. What more an I say?!?

COBALT 14th March 2013 11:45 am

Go team! :smitten:


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