Dear Ones,

You continue to be of  the 3D world while completing or starting a number of transition phases. A bit like a child in a candy store. There seems to be too many options and yet, none of them strike you as the best option.

So you run around helter-skelter selecting this and that transition phase without focussing on any one piece. It is time to focus. For you are offered options – not to select all of those options, but to determine what gives you the most joy.

Perhaps such a concept appears a bit cruel. Why do you need to select one of the options instead of all? Or one today and three tomorrow?

The multiple options are to help you determine your path. For freedom of choice remains part of your Universal being. We cannot and will not decide which option is your path of joy. So it is that many options are available to most, if not all humans, opening their Universal eyes.

Some of those options are not that exciting to you – in your verbal terms, those options are time wasters.

Does something you activate, listen to or read seem more like a should than a joy? If so, that should is not part of your path.

Shoulds of any type, including Universal shoulds are mere time wasters for you now. What is your focus? Only you can decide. And that decision is based upon your interest and joy.

Does something seemingly silly make you laugh or sparkle? That is your joy. Does something feel as if you must do it even though it seems counter-intuitive? That is your joy.

There are no shoulds in 5D – only a path to YOUR joy. Your joy does not need to create joy for anyone else. It is your joy and your joy alone.

So it is you are learning to love yourself enough to find your focal point, your joy path despite others telling you to move this way or that. You cannot be all things to anyone – including yourself. You have a focused path to find and follow. And it is time to do so.

In the past few years, you were offered many options that helped you define you. The same options continue for those who follow you.

You no longer have the time to review, accept or discard all of those options. For you are much more advanced than was true even a few days ago.

Think in terms of your college coursework. In your first year or so of college, you completed introductory courses that had little to do with your declared course of study. As you advanced in your college coursework, you focussed on your major course of study. So it is now.

Worrying that you are missing something important to your new you development if you do not read or access every New Earth piece of information is a time waster. You are to focus on your joy.

Some of you are discovering that your joy has little to do with the New Earth pieces you can easily access via the Internet or reading/listening materials. You still think that even though painting, dancing, exercise, your job or family, attending parties or reading is your joy, you SHOULD access every piece you see that is of a spiritual nature.

Such is no longer true. You have your spirituality basics. Your focus now is learning to love yourself. Joy, joy and more joy in whatever form is your path to fully loving yourself.

Stop worrying that if you do not access every New Earth piece you will miss an important key to your being, to self-love. You are beyond that – but those just awakening are not. So it is that New Earth information continues to permeate earth for easy access to all who wish to discover their new beings. You are beyond that.

You have completed the basics – now it is time to find new you through self-love. It is time to focus on your personal joy, your personal path. So be it. Amen.


debs go lightly 5th July 2016 5:06 pm

Yesterday, with the soul, there was the strange, soft, shimmering presence all through my body, down to my toes.
It is like keeping your balance on a tightrope, a sort of letting go but also focusing sensation.

You are already in the garden
The garden creates itself as you walk
You don't have to push and try to create it
You only need to walk and appreciate it

You are already in the garden
The garden creates itself as you walk
Set your compass to joy


Toni 6th July 2016 4:47 am

Surely if one is choosing joy, the path is naturally of heart?

It’s the free childlike heart that creates joy... a requisite so to speak. :)

Brenda Hoffman 6th July 2016 9:27 am

Hi Debs,
Thank you for sharing your absolutely beautiful sensations and knowingness.
Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

Brenda Hoffman 6th July 2016 9:30 am

Hi Nikos,
Yes joy and heart! Difficult to sense without the other from our new us. here we go indeed!
Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,

Brenda Hoffman 6th July 2016 9:33 am

Hi Toni,
Ah! And so it is!
Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,

cyndy 6th July 2016 9:56 am

Debs, I am with Brenda on this.... Thank you for sharing your beautiful words. Truly touched and help my "remembering" of the Eden of my Heart.

zorro 6th July 2016 9:38 pm

"There is nothing better for a man, than that he should eat and drink, and that he should make his soul enjoy good in his labour. This also I saw, that it was from the hand of God."

King Solomon
Ecclesiastes 2:24

Even Solomon knew that external circumstances are fleeting, and that real joy is an inner job, and is revealed through our everyday choices in what we do whatever that is, and there is no should. What brings you joy? Express that, build on that, and give thanks that it is so.

Yes, shake off the shoulds!

cyndy 6th July 2016 10:37 pm

This was one of the best posted on shoulds by Zorro back in 2013.

by zorro27th November 2013 1:47 pm
Confucius say, "He who take on too many should, will eventually suffer from should-er pain. No needs be Charlie Atlas, so no should-er too many shoulds"

So much truth in it an yet gives me a giggle.

zorro 7th July 2016 7:06 am

I like how this author on the same subject framed the discussion between "should and must", and think it augments the discussion here. I realize that "must" can be a trap also, but the exercise creates the kind of contrast that exposes the underlining dynamics of knowing what "sparkles" (Brenda!) at our core, and awaits our expression.

cyndy 7th July 2016 12:15 pm

Wow, this is what ignited my first spark today. Here's what my daughter posted on her Facebook page this morning.
"Activate thoughtfulness, and then engage in real life. in facets beyond what you already know. With love."
Yay! One of my first sparkles of the day.!

Brenda Hoffman 8th July 2016 12:00 pm

Hi Cyndy,
The "Eden of your heart" is such a beautiful phrase. Thank you!
Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,

Brenda Hoffman 8th July 2016 12:02 pm

Hi Zorro,
YES!!! "Shake off the shoulds!"
Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,

Brenda Hoffman 8th July 2016 12:03 pm

Hi Cyndy and Zorro,
Love it!!!!
Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,

Brenda Hoffman 8th July 2016 12:05 pm

Hi Zorro,
"Sparkles at our core" - yet another great phrase. Thank you.
Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,

Brenda Hoffman 8th July 2016 12:07 pm

Hi Cyndy,
To sparks and sparkles for all of us!
Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,

Deeni 14th July 2016 9:03 am

Thank You, Debs Go Lightly.

I set my compass to JOY! <3

Much Love, Light and Inner Peace to You, and All. : )

Deeni 14th July 2016 9:17 am

Thank You, Brenda.

Funny thing, I started up my computer, and this message from you was the first thing I saw.

Thing is, I know I didn't open it. Yet, there it was.

I have been grappling with this very thing. I had just finished asking for guidance, and spent time nurturing my inner child, and then this message pops up on my screen.

I have set my focus to JOY, my JOY. Another funny thing, I began a project of a Spiritual nature, a few months ago, utilizing skills I have that give me much JOY.

I began this, for a myriad of reasons, and then I became stuck. I am transitioning from leaving a relationship of 27 years, and it is up to me to support my child and myself. I know I 'should' acquire gainful employment. And yet, I keep feeling, my JOY is in this new endeavor.

Another funny thing, I named my Internet store The 't' is silent. So, in actuality, it is The 't' represents Christ Conciousness, hence why it is silent.

Right after having my chat with Spirit, I open my computer, and there is your message.

Thank You, Brenda. So much. <3


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