Many of you experienced unexpected feelings, interactions and behaviors in the last few days – maybe even the last two weeks. That is expected. For the energy shifts of July were greater than has been true for shifts of the past. Previous shifts arrived in batches, but never to the extent you just experienced, nor in such a condensed period. With each shift, your physical being becomes stronger which allows you to accept more incoming energy. And so it happened for many of you last month.
You shifted physically and spiritually. In turn, those shifts affected you emotionally. Perhaps you lashed out at a friend or relative. Perhaps you were angry at the Universe, your employer or politicians. It does not matter. You needed to vent to stabilize your being. Were you not shocked by your rage – something you were certain you had by-passed long ago?
We have told you that fear and pain would not disappear – they would merely be painted with smaller and brighter pots of paint. And so it is. Your anger dissipated and you returned to what you think is your normal behavior. And we laugh. For indeed, as you add slivers of your totality, as you shift and as you become more spiritual, you will also be more real.
Does that thought send a shiver of fear through you? There is no need for such fear. For indeed, more real also means more loving. The caveat is that you will love yourself more. Ah. Now you are beginning to grasp what we mean. If you truly love yourself, you can no longer play victim or care taker roles. You will also be less interested, if not totally disinterested, in enabling others to play those roles. And if those close to you continue to play those roles or enable others to do so, do not be surprised if you remove them from your circle of special people.
This does not mean you will hide in your home. Rather, you will no longer tolerate those roles in whatever form they take. Observing others continuing those roles or enabling others to do so, will become so painful you will need to remove yourself. For as you continue to grow in loving yourself, you will feel more and more uncomfortable around those who do not.
Perhaps the analogy of someone who decides to stop smoking and finds smoky restaurants unacceptable would be an apt analogy. Even though some who have stopped smoking insist that others follow in their new-found health path, most merely stop attending those events that are in smoke filled environments.
And so shall it be for you. You will not have a need to preach the rightness of your new-found self-love, you merely will not wish to be around those who continue to take part in victim/care taker activities.
Will such new thoughts change your relationships? Most definitely for most relationships you developed in this lifetime – and for eons – have included elements of both care taking and victimization. Even your recent United States congressional anger demonstrated victimhood. “Those bad, mean congress people are taking away our rights.” – or – “Giving rights away.” You whine and you protest – all the while forgetting that you gave them their power and continue to do so every time you vote or do not vote.
Of course, you do not need to start a revolution. But at the same time, all your victim whining will not change the structure of any government. You elected or support them. Take responsibility for your actions. Which is no different from taking responsibility for smoking or not smoking. You cannot claim to have moved from the care taker/victim roles if you continue to allow your governments, churches and corporations to tell you who you are and what you need to do. You placed yourself in those prisons, it is time to release yourself.
Many of you are clamouring, “How am I supposed to change the structures that rule my life?” How indeed? We have long told you that your structures would evolve to meet your new needs. As you shift, allow, encourage and EXPECT your structures to shift also. If those structures are of the people, by the people – which they are – what type of structures best fit the new you, your new society?
Allow those structures to be created. The only way such deeply engrained structures will shift is if you, and everyone who wishes to, decide that care taking and victimhood are no longer part of your repertoire. Many of you are now thinking, “How can I possibly do that?” (victimhood) “But what about those people over there, how can I take care of them?” (care taking).
You have long proclaimed that you create your reality, that you can heal yourself and that you are the creator of your world. Expand those thoughts to realize that you are one of the millions of cells joining together to not only shift your thinking, but that of the earth and all the other entities on the earth who wish to shift. It started with you. Now expand your thoughts and your acceptance of your power to include everything and everyone you interact with daily. That is your right. That is your power. Most importantly, that is your role.
Do such thoughts seem cruel or insurmountable? They are if you are a care taker or a victim. They are not if you fully claim your inner power, inner creativity, inner skills and expect everyone else to do the same. That is the New Age/new earth – the ascension.
So be it. Amen
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