Your Crowd-Pleasing Days are Over

Dear Ones,

We are amazed at your tenacity and yes, strength. For throughout your 3D eons of earth lives, you forced yourself to follow society rules instead of daring to be you. So it is that you did physical, emotional, and spiritual harm to your being to be part of the group.

Now that you are of 5D, you are beginning to proclaim your individuality. Something not necessarily easy. Not because it is wrong, but because it is so foreign to the 3D society with which you are familiar.

Even though you continue to remain within that society via your daily activities, your voice is changing from that of passive acquiesce to an almost strident rightness to be. Something that frightens you as much as others.

Words of anger, incorrectness, here I am, seem to flow out of your mouth with little forewarning. For you are discovering yourself and your power much as a teenager does as they evolve into a young adult.

Where you once said, “yes” even though you did not want to deep within your being, you are now loudly proclaiming, “NO.” Surprising both you and those comfortable with the old you.

You are claiming your power, one ‘no’ at a time. Of course, doing so is disturbing to both you and the entities experiencing it for all of you are trained to be nice.

You have even been taught ways to proclaim your rightness with hidden means. Such as talking about someone when they are not there. Or responding to what you label a “catty” answer. Or acquiescing to a request only to neglect to follow through. Or ignoring your needs, so someone else is comfortable. But nowhere in that litany of acceptable behaviors is your ability to quietly and calmly state your needs without some sort of 3D repercussion.

For 3D is group-think and 5D and beyond is the uniqueness of being.

Perhaps the best way to describe this is to think in terms of all being of one body with specific hair cells, nail cells, skin cells, etc. In 3D, everyone decided to be hair cells allowing for a very limited body.

So it is you are discovering that various groups of like mind or action are finding one another and proclaiming their rightness as a heart or kidney cell knowing and accepting that other cells will proclaim their rightness until the body is complete and whole. Something that never happened or was possible when all looked to someone other than themselves to lead and proclaim their rightness of being.

Perhaps you remember that many proclaimed their leadership and rightness of being throughout the 3D ages. Such is so. But a leader is not a leader without followers. So it is that the leaders needed to cater to followers just enough for them to continue to be followers – until that point in 3D history when you all expected someone to be your leader and no longer attempted to fully be yourself within your selected group. Someone was in charge and even though that someone was you at times, you were only in charge as long as you provided enough rewards – either the carrot or the stick – for those who followed you.

This 5D experience is extremely different. Instead of following someone you fear or respect, you are following your path. So it is that even those who seem to be of like-mind are not entirely of your mind – just as it should be. For each of you is a powerful entity who does not require a leader nor anyone to proclaim your rightness.

That last statement has to be extremely frightening. For you do not yet feel strong enough to proclaim your rightness as a unique individual. You wish to hide behind this person or label hoping others will forge the new way.

Instead, it is you and only you. There are so many functions of this New Earth to complete that while you might meet fellow travelers here and there at certain junctions, it is your path, not the path of anyone else.

Your golden threads in this new tapestry are unique and even though you have the freedom to stop or slow your 5D evolution, the earth and therefore the Universes will be less because of your disinterest in continuing.

We must add, so you do again fall into the 3D service trap, that other generations will pick up any missing threads until the tapestry is complete. It is just that you wished to experience the end result more rapidly than viewing it from the ethers or other 5D earth lives.

You can stop, but the earth evolution will not. It will merely be a bit less complete than what you hoped for when you en masse requested to see some final results instead of merely building the bridge to the New Age.

To do so, you must first proclaim your rightness of being to yourself. Which is starting to happen – deepening daily as most often indicated by your unwillingness to be the crowd pleaser you have been in 3D.

Allow yourself to have a few temper tantrums, a few angry words. You are breaking out of your 3D hiding place to claim you in the new more accepting place that is now 5D earth. So be it. Amen.

Comments

Pambailey 1st March 2018 2:22 pm

Thank you, Brenda! ♥

"Your Crowd-Pleasing Days are Over"

I know!! And now I'm confused. Because my life is changing :)

nikos.v.2 2nd March 2018 3:55 pm

Sometimes it's very difficult not to entangle with anyone (even a stranger) that comes across your way. Being on a car in a traffic jam inevitably puts you in 3d dimension and situation most of the timessss..... (My enter doesn't work on this computer) My point is though a 3d situation in more or less inevitable in almost all of the arenas, to put a word, in our society.

nikos.v.2 2nd March 2018 4:07 pm

Many layers on our earth have been dissolved, which makes things more complicated especially if we have done much clearing ourselves. (paragraph) I don't know if you agree or have an input . ....thanks

nikos.v.2 2nd March 2018 4:11 pm

Wishes for a fruity :angel: weekend.

nikos.v.2 2nd March 2018 4:28 pm

of course there are periods in life we pass too.

Brenda Hoffman 4th March 2018 6:26 pm

Hi Pam,
I think most of us are confused. What was isn't anymore and what will be is still formulating. Fortunately, we're able to share with others via the Internet so we better understand that we're not alone.
Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
Brenda

Brenda Hoffman 4th March 2018 6:31 pm

Dear Nikos,
We're pretty amazing even if we don't always understand or know that we are. Yes, we're thrown into 3D often as we're adjusting to our new 5D beings which is confusing and at times, extremely uncomfortable. Yet, we (to borrow a recent slogan) persist. Despite our fears, our angst, and discovering our new path and joy. It's not easy, but then, we're the Change Olympians trying to determine if the shift we've created in possible while of a 3D world. We've, of course, passed with flying colors and yet we persist! Kudos to us all.
Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
Brenda

nikos.v.2 5th March 2018 7:20 am

Yes, Brenda, we persist, we need those kudos, though there is wondermend/wondering by my side if this whole process is worth our (to use a word) soul energy... Thanks , for you have the keys! ~N (I think the sexes grow apart, the male and the female and as we are not extremely mature there are major chasms in the life field. The male and female components are vital in my view to have a balance. :''( :-[ ) ... to be continued I suppose. ~ Balance and support.

Rahul 8th March 2018 9:03 pm

Ya pambailey we all are confused. The doors to 3d is completely shut. And the road ahead is new and unknown. Yet there is a belief that sumthing great is coming in our lives.

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Brenda Hoffman

An intuitive since birth, Brenda formalized her channeling skills with her internationally noted book, A Glimpse of Your Future. This prophetic classic describes your role in this transition, as well as answers questions such as why baby boomers were instrumental in introducing the New Age and what earth will be like in the year 4000.

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