What To Do When You Don't Know What To Do

I’m sitting on a plane bound for Tucson, Arizona, heading to our retreat at Miraval. For the last hour and a half I’ve been attempting to write this blog but nothing of substance wants to come through.

So, I’ve been doing what I’ve done for much of my life – working hard to force words on the page.

Not the best way to invite inspired art.

And I’m about to teach a retreat on creativity. Uh-oh.

Relax, I tell myself. Be present to this moment. Become a lady-in-waiting, attending to her inner Queen.

She can be trusted. She holds the keys to the Queendom.

In her most Holy state she acquires the Universe with her presence alone.

So I breathe…

And I wait…

The never-ending lesson of release…

Yes, I’m a timid, faithful student of surrender…

In this moment I’m reminded, once again, that so much of my time has been spent trying to make things happen – pushing and prodding my way to a better life.

But nothing soulful is birthed from force anymore.

Magic happens through patience and presence and peace. So I think I’ll wait…

Because often it’s the very best thing to do. 

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The folks in this place are masters at waiting. I guess it would be easy with the kind of beauty they enjoy outside their window. You can watch the video here.


Dls 4th March 2014 11:31 pm

So very true...

"But nothing soulful is birthed from force anymore.

Magic happens through patience and presence and peace. So I think I’ll wait…"

I'm a songwriter. When I try, I get nothing. When I'm in the bathroom putting on mascara, I can write an entire song in 5 minutes. It will come. Patience, presence (with faith), and peace are the keys! Good to know I'm not the only one :)

MarQus Welbee 4th March 2014 11:39 pm

Dear Soul of the Universe
There is NOT any moment of Ur attempt to Create that is lost,,,,, the lost part is only from the Past,,,U are doing everything Correct,, : )
Every Beautifull moment that U think is Nothing,,,,, is EVERYTHING,, and the Universe Smiles with U,,, : )
MarQus from everywhere,, : )


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