This time of year dredges up much pain and sadness held in the recesses of our hearts. It is a profound opportunity to heal and transform those bruises into a lightened, expanded heart. Compassion is a fire that heals your own and another’s heart. Remember it is our minds that continue to batter our hearts by recurring thoughts that become a form of self-flagellation. Why do we hurt ourselves so?
In my medical practice, I’ve developed enormous respect for the art of relationships, what makes them work or fail. In all successful relationships, whether with family, friends, or co-workers it’s vital that each person honestly examine his or her behavior and be willing to discuss it and change.
As you approach your linear year of 2012, many of the changes you have experienced in the previous years will be consolidated – in your mind and therefore into matter on a physical level. The previous three years have created much of your transformation. Prior to that was a time of preparation and of awakening to your Soul Light.
We are preparing for a massive opening with the 11/11/11. Neptune is nurturing the salty disappointments, fears, misperceptions and abuses that have separated us from ourselves, each other and the full creative flow of Love. Within the depths are the last vestiges of disconnection reaching out to be embraced in the powerful strength of forgiveness and love. You see it in the eyes, you feel it in the heart; the gushing relief of I love you just as you are.
Once again there’s much love and much change in the air, and the change is going to come more and more quickly as you get towards the end of 2012. Those who have much power on this Earth will begin to lose that power and they will begin to lose control. For those of you that have done a lot of inner work, you will begin to see the benefits of the inner work; your lives will begin to change, even more quickly than ever before, and your dreams will begin to come true. There will come a flow of energy that will take you into a new world.
From where we are looking, it looks like you are having a lot of fun. You are enjoying these energies, more importantly, letting these energies go the closer and closer you get to 2012. To the end of 2012 the negative energies will release so quickly. You will be moving into a new consciousness, a consciousness that even in this moment it will be unbelievable from what will be like.
As a psychiatrist, I strongly believe that it is important to know about the narcissistic personality so you can have realistic expectations when dealing with coworkers, friends or family members who may have some of these qualities.
I hope this finds you well and happy. Today the topic at hand is judgment of others and being with what is. I have found that many people when dealing with another person that is in distress, especially of an emotional nature are quick to try to “cheer them up” or somehow shift them out of it. What is the reason for this?