Personal Relationship Challenges and the Timing of Our Store-Fronts

We are still integrating and adjusting to a new space in a higher realms reality, and one manifestation that is hitting us squarely in the face is the collision of masculine and feminine energies. As things which affect us personally seem to be the most paramount in our lives, colliding male/female relationships seem to be at the forefront now, more than ever before.

What is occurring now, in regard to our personal relationships with others, is the butting up of the feminine with the masculine. We are now in the new feminine more than ever before. This is the energy that must lead the way. This is the energy that closely and beautifully matches the energy of the new and higher realms. Masculine energy can be embodied by women, and feminine energy by men, so it is not all about a duality of the sexes here.

And how are these energies colliding for us? For many women, they absolutely can no longer tolerate, be supportive of, or in any way be submissive to men who are embodying the old masculine. This can be the same for men as well, but because of our old and now outdated socialization methods of masculine and feminine roles being embodied by specific sexes, women still tend to carry more of the feminine energy. But again, men carrying any of the feminine will be tortured and intolerant of any lower vibrating masculine energies as well, no matter where and with whom they are manifesting.

The feminine will no longer wait for and support the masculine. It has to do what it has to do. So then, many relationships are finding themselves at a pivotal place where partners are breaking apart. Something has indeed shifted, even though we may not be consciously aware of what it is. If you are in a partner relationship with another, you may feel that your relationship is over…boom….suddenly kaput…seemingly out of the blue. “We just do not see eye to eye, we cannot get along, we disagree, and there is so much friction! It feels like we have hit one big roadblock!” But what is really happening here, is that the roles need to be redefined. The feminine needs to be honored and given the leading and most prevalent position, no matter with whom and where it is residing.

Support, compassion, love, understanding, nurturing, caring, communicating freely, unity at all costs, respect, and allowing are some of these traits, and are also some other general traits that will be more in alignment with a higher realms reality. The more we embody higher realms energy, the easier our path will be. There will be less friction for us, as we are now residing in these new higher vibrating surrounding energies. Both men and women will do well to embody as many as these traits as possible.

So, the feminine cannot stand by and wait. The time is here…it has to reign so to speak. The urge is more powerful than ever. It must move forward. Remember in past weeks when many of us experienced personal injuries, health situations, or the like that forced us to “stay down,” and really learn how to embody more of the feminine? Has the left vs. the right side of your body been noticeably different in regard to feeling pressure, pain, or exhaustion? Have you had an unusually stiff neck or back pain of late? Have you had sinus or head pressure or aches that are severe and unusual? These are some indicators of adjustments being made in integrating and/or purging out of date energies within us, as we allow, embody, and align to higher vibrating energies. (During the equinox energies, there was so much energy and heat coming in through my crown and third eye, that we had to apply cold compresses to my head and upper body, and heat to my feet! It stopped me from vomiting, due to these intense new energies.)

Now that much of the integrating is complete, forward movement is now causing collisions with old and new energies, but it time, things will sift and sort themselves out, until we reach the next rung of the ladder!

With this new and more pronounced feminine leading the way, we may be very attracted now to anything of the feminine nature…movies, books, geographical locations, and the like, as this feminine energy is one of the few places that still feels good. Much of all else is rapidly falling away, and it can be challenging to feel good anywhere right now.

In addition, we are wired for creating and building the new. This is our role. So then, being that it is not time yet to build much of the new on a grand scale, we can feel suppressed indeed, and even feel powerless. And add to this the embodiment within us of a new and higher vibration which deems anything that vibrates lower simply horrible, intolerable, frustrating, and deeply sad, and the ascension process can seem like a very unpleasant experience indeed!

Now that we have reached yet another plateau on the ascension ladder, the lower vibrating energies can again almost make us ill, and we can become incensed, angry, frustrated, or just plain exhausted from them. We may wonder just how long they will ever exist, and feel like we have been waiting forever for the new world to arrive on this planet.

With all this going on at once, how are we supposed to embody the new feminine, while feeling the common ascension experience of feeling the exact opposite? Here is one way, and it is a general rule of thumb for ascension: We can go where we feel good. We can follow the trail that leads us to areas, people, situations, and the like, where we seem to feel good. This is our barometer. It is in what feels good. In this regard, we are then in alignment with ourselves and Source, and being in alignment always feels good. The common ascension experience of feeling repulsed by lower vibrations, exists because we are being stongly nudged to go somewhere else…to not be in that presence anymore, as we are no longer a match. As mentioned so many times before, we can also stay out of and away from what is falling. We can stay in our own personal sanctuaries of our own creation. We can create there, even if the world is not yet ready for our new creations. The more we stay in the old and denser energies, the more horrible we will feel, and these old energies can greatly drag us down. We need not go down with the ship.

So then, we leave the lower vibrating energies that feel awful. We cannot no longer be in their space. But we visit them from time to time when we are in service, as then we are able to extend love and compassion, and this is the only state we can be in while in the lower vibrating dimensions. Otherwise, we will find ourselves deteriorating. Then back to our higher vibrating sanctuaries.

In addition, if you have a new and exciting creation ready which is truly in alignment with your passion and who you are, and it is not seemingly going anywhere, there are some good reasons why. Firstly, it is not time yet. The planet is not ready in the falling away state it is currently in. Secondly, your creation must be in alignment with the new and higher ways. We will be blocked from releasing new creations if they are still in alignment with the old ways and structures for a few reasons. If we released them now, they would go down with what is falling. If you are being blocked for this reason, you are simply being protected, and need to tweak your creation so that is matches the new energies. In addition, it is difficult to be in the flow of anything, if we are not in alignment with the new energies. As mentioned above, being in alignment with the new energies greatly assists in making for an easy flow in our lives, which translates to effortless being. So then, some creations may be blocked as their arena is not yet ready. Things are still being re-structured (or falling away enough to make room for the new). And others may be holding old energies. So all in all, no matter what your creation, it is not time yet for any of us!

What types of creations will be in alignment with the new? Things that make us feel good or pamper us (the arts or self-care, for example). Anything that relates to service for those in transition (these areas will only be able to be accessed for brief periods of time by practitioners…healers will be non-existent, as healing by another is forced and unnatural, and comes from the outside. If you are wondering why Jesus was a healer, for instance, that is a whole other story for another time). Anything containing the energy of simplicity and purity. Anything that relates to self-sufficiency…or organic, natural building, community gardening, the environment, honoring the earth, etc. These are but a few examples.

January will be the big month. Come January, we will be positioned where we need to be. All should be in order in January. This is when we will firmly land.

Service and humanitarian work will become extremely prevalent beginning now. This is because so much will be falling away, and so many will be dis-placed and need help. But again, it is vitally important that we serve for brief periods of time, and then retreat to our sanctuaries of higher vibration. In this regard, we are basically navigating the dimensions. Going lower to serve as the non-physical beings have always done, and then retreating to a higher vibrating reality. The higher vibrating realities are our sanctuaries…whether within a small community, or even with ourselves within our own homes. Wherever we are, we will have easy access to the areas where we will be serving.

And many are re-locating now for this very purpose. Re-locating to new areas that perfectly match our own vibrations, and thus, feeling good when we arrive is a good barometer and indicator that we have arrived where we need to be. We will be placed where we need to be with an effortless flow that will be guided by our souls. No room for error here. If you are one who is needing to re-locate, you will most likely be feeling panicky and fearful, along with feelings of desperation and depression. In either case, re-location may simply mean a change in the interior of your current residence, or in your lifestyle. At any rate, we will all be guided if we simply allow and let go. If you do not have access to direct communication from non-physical higher vibrating beings, you will receive messages in the way that you receive the easiest. We are all different, and receive messages in ways that suit each and every one of us according to who we are. In this way, we are all perfectly protected.

We are also expanding as well, as expansion is part of evolution. This can manifest as feeling much more connected to all parts of the world, having boundaries greatly thin, feeling more connected and one with others, etc. If you are one who is wanting to relocate to another country, for instance, this has more to do with expanding than it has to do with moving out of fear of the fall.

Some are now finding land and will retreat there. These places will become wonderful sanctuaries for the dis-placed to come to. When those who have lost much of everything begin to let go and surrender, they can then find sanctuary in a new reality. These new places will be the beginning of the new communities. Those whom arrive will be able to contribute their own specific gifts and talents, thus contributing to the whole of the community. So then, the forerunners will be the ones who begin by securing the land or the spaces, and others will follow.

Because everything is always in perfect and divine order, some are now beginning the experience of losing everything. This is as it should be, even though it is always challenging when this occurs. Our new communities of love and support, no matter where they are, will be vitally important for the creation of the new world. Trying to fit into the old structures which are now falling, will be futile. Being willing to let go is the key. And knowing who we are and what we can contribute, with our ego selves aside, is also vitally important.

So then, how will you serve? In what arena? And what is your gift and talent for the creation of the new planet earth? What will you contribute to your sanctuary to make it divine? What will you allow others to contribute that is not yours to do? And what then, is your humanitarian work about? Is your contribution to the creation of your sanctuary and community the same as your humanitarian work, or are they two different things entirely? The planet is ready for your gifts, in the very near future. Will you be ready as well?

Wishing you Heaven in your heart, starlight in your soul, and miracles in your life in these miraculous times.

Until next time,




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